How To Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back
OK, you screwed up. You did something dumb or thoughtless or unforgiveable... and now you want your ex girlfriend back. So, how can you do that? How can you get her back in your arms... where she belongs... forever? Well, here are three things that will help.
Buy Her Roses
I know, I know. That sounds like something out of a 50's movie. A lot of men claim that modern women don't fall for that sentimental stuff. And those guys are DEAD WRONG! Women LOVE flowers. And they especially love it when their men take the time and effort to get their favorite flowers. Something with a special meaning for her. Trust me on this. If you really, really want to get your ex girlfriend back... buy her flowers. That's not enough, but it shows you care, and that's a great first step.
Talk To Her, Honestly
Women need to talk. So, let her. Don't interrupt. Don't try to solve her problem before she's explained it. Don't turn on the TV and pretend to listen to her while you're watching the game. Listen... like she's the most important person in the world. And if you want to get your ex girlfrend back... she IS the most important person for you.
And after you've listened to her... she'll listen to you. You've made her feel special and important and loved... so she'll return the favor. Then you can both explain -- honestly, with no blame and hurt feelings -- why you broke up. And you might even explore ways to fix those problems. That's a great second step.
Appreciate Her
Now we come to the most important step in getting your ex girlfriend back. She will only come back if being with you is better -- satisfies her needs more -- than being away from you. If you add more value to her life than anybody else does... then she'll come back. If you don't... she won't.
What does she want? Aretha Franklin gives us a clue. She wants RESPECT. And she wants to feel appreciated. She did lots of things for you. How often did you say "thanks". How often did you tell her how much you appreciated everything she did for you? How often did you tell her how much she meant to you? For most guys, the answers are "rarely", "almost never", and "never".
That's the real mistake you made. You may think she left because of some other problem... but that lack of appreciation... that lack of RESPECT... is the core problem. Fix that, and the other problems will fade away. Show her (don't just talk about it--talk's cheap; do something) how much you appreciate her... how much your respect how... and how much she means to you... and you'll get your ex girlfriend back fast. And more important... you'll be the sort of tender, caring man who deserve to have such a wonderful woman back in his arms.
